Broke, Overweight, and No Meaning

Nineteen years ago, I left my home in South Carolina for Wichita, KS. I was broke, overweight, in significant debt, and I felt I like my life had no meaning. While believing in God, He was not a major part of my life. Sure, I went to church but that was about it, but my faith was dead.

That move would change my life but it would take almost the entire 19 years. In becoming a financial planner, I was introduced to a world that I didn’t know existed. A few short years after making the move, I was making a little more money, but continued to gain weight. Topping out somewhere around 260 pounds.

One morning I finally woke up and was so sick and tired of being fat, I decided to do something about it. No fad diet, just common sense, and a drive that has never left. Through those years, I learned a lot, and now, after 15 years of maintaining, I hope to help others do the same. Mistakes were made, and my body reminds me of that. Hopefully I can help others to not make the same mistakes. Teaching that it’s normal for your weight to fluctuate, but to set limits on how much. It is simple and it works.

Back to the financial planning experience. Just this past September, I stepped away from the business, but the knowledge that I gained in those 18+ years is something that I hope to share as well. What I want to teach, just as in fitness, is common sense. There were also things that I saw in the industry that conflicted with the teachings of scripture. Things that everyone should know before visiting with a broker or financial planner.

Finally I turned to God in 2009 and gained an understanding of scripture that I only wish I had known earlier. The Way to salvation is there, but there is so much more and if we as a Christian community will turn to it and believe it with our hearts and minds, we have the opportunity to build stronger communities, and recognize when we are being taught falsely.

In 2014 I introduced a name, Complete Fitness, not understanding the significance of the name and experiencing frustration until now, that even caused me to question God as to why He led me to it. Today, I realize that we can be so much more than we are. Not for fame, not for fortune. Rather, to be the light of God on this earth, and ultimately lead people to Christ when they see He is why we do what we do.

 

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